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The beginning of life
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Each child who is born
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It's a kind of surprise
for humanity.
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And, in my opinion,
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It is with this spirit
that we must welcome the children.
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This is the first
great challenge of a person:
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fight to pass
by the birth channel.
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She can handle firm
and can pass.
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It was his first journey of the hero,
And she surpassed her.
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They are warriors, you know?
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They survive
to amazing births.
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If we think
in a newborn,
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We have a red and wrinkled baby
in our arms
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barely holding
the head itself,
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And at the age of 3,
You can walk,
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speak and even lie
About some things.
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So, at 3 years old,
already knows how to deceive,
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already feel empathy
by others.
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One of the things we know
is that the babies are
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The best machines
to learn from the universe.
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Same philosophers, psychologists
and psychiatrists thought
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that babies were irrational,
egocentric,
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that were immoral,
that did not understand cause and effect,
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who could not put themselves
instead of someone else.
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And in the last 30 years,
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Science proved
which is all exactly the opposite.
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You are great sisters.
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Yes.
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No.
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Yes, can you say yes?
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No.
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Instead of seeing them
like shallow tabs,
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Today we already know
that they are
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The best scientists and students
that we know in the world.
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We say that young children
They do not pay attention.
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We really want to say is that
Never stop paying attention.
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It turns out that they are
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ultrasensible
to information standards
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And everything that happens
around you.
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They use this information
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To try to solve problems
And find out what happens in the world.
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Babies create hypotheses
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About what happens in the world
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and try to confirm them.
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This is one of the reasons
for which
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If a baby is sitting
in a chair in the restaurant,
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Maybe he drops
a spoon
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and the spoon beats the floor,
making a noise.
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And one of the parents put the spoon
Back in the seat and say:
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"Don't throw the spoon."
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Soon after, the baby plays
the spoon on the floor again
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To see if it makes noise.
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Babies are busy
trying to understand
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how predictable the world is.
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Does the world work like this?
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"If I drop the spoon,
Will you make noise again? "
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Sometimes they do
experiences with us.
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"If I play the spoon, my mother
Will you speak up again? "
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The mother says, "Stop!"
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The baby thinks, "How cool!
I understand my mother.
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I already know how to make
She makes that face. "
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Children
with high self -esteem
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are willing to risk
To learn new things,
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because they may be wrong.
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So self -esteem helps them
to do new things,
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even if the child does not
succeed.
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Most of the time,
Children do not get it right,
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The children make a lot of mistakes.
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As adults, we should try
Understand what it is like to be a child.
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They try to climb the couch,
But the sofa is too high;
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They try to eat
alone and the food falls.
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So we need to increase
Their self -esteem
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so that they feel good
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And keep trying
until they are successful.
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We call the early years
of years of formation.
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What stimulates
The baby's brain
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It's nothing beyond
of a perception of yourself.
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"What is it like to be me?"
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"What is it like to be human?"
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"This life, what is it?"
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What is being formed
It is your self -perception
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and your perception of the world.
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A child needs
be left free,
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free to choose,
to observe.
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Free to approach,
To get away,
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free to be able to experiment
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a material of various ways.
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Sometimes I hear:
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"The child needs to learn, is a
container we filled with knowing ".
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No, this is not true.
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She is not a shallow board
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Where do you put your knowledge
and their skills.
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Children learn
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and co-consider your knowledge
next to you,
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next to colleagues,
next to the other children.
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And do it
If you see you involved,
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having fun with them,
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If you see you interested
what they are doing
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And if they see that this interest does not
passes only from the child to the adult,
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but especially the child
for the other children.
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Learning begins
When the baby is born,
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And there is evidence that they
They already learn inside the womb.
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Learning has no programming,
It happens through associations.
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When they find out
that that block
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fits that hole
in a certain way,
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When they set up something
that never set up before,
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be it in the kitchen
Playing with the pans,
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or building
A little house in the bush,
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or building something on the beach,
In the sand,
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They are inventing.
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They are the great
innovative in the world.
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Imagine alternative worlds,
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be able to think of the world
differently than it really is,
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It is one of the most powerful capabilities
that we humans have as adults.
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If you think well,
Everything in this room
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It was imaginary of perspective
someone
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that one day lived in a cave,
at the beginning of human evolution.
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For babies, since birth
And in the early years of life,
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The brain makes calls
between neurons
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at an impressive speed.
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Every second, the brain makes
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from 700 to 1000 new connections,
every second.
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In the brain of babies, there are many
POSSIBLE ROUNTS AND CONNECTIONS
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between one neuron and another.
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During development,
the routes that are widely used
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are maintained and reinforced,
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and those that are little used
practically disappear.
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The most important ingredient
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It is the people who interact
regularly with the child.
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What we call interaction
"hits ball" between babies and adults.
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The baby does something like smiling,
babble or complain,
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And the adult responds
to what the baby is doing.
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And as babies grow,
even in the early years,
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They continue to respond,
From the beginning.
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So this answer
BALL BALL IS ESSENTIAL
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to develop the brain.
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In Mom's chest.
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The mother is the first sample
of humanity
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with which
The child has contact.
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The relationship you have
With your mother determines
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The world for which
You will enter
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and the support you can
expect from others.
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I was blessed
for being able to experience
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This level of love.
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Someone can tell you:
"You will love this child."
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But no one could
have prepared me
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For such a deep love.
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Love these babies more than
that my own parents.
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In the second I found out, it was:
"I have a life inside me."
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And every little detail, like ...
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my hips widening,
Not being able to sleep at night ...
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Are all these small details
that add to love.
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When we hold them
and we think:
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"I went through all this
Just to hold you ".
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The mother is the main responsible
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in the construction of capital
human of your child.
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This maternal love is a
IMPORTANT PART OF ECONOMY
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and that is not totally
recognized by society.
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I don't want to minimize
The role of man.
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Its function is very important.
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Children of absent parents
They grow in a much worse situation.
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But I also think the
Mother's function is essential.
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We have already seen many families
where a mother alone,
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Even without a man,
raised very successful children.
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I debate myself with the fact
that, on the one hand,
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I am the only father I know
that is at home,
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But, on the other hand,
Someone has to do that.
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Someone has to do this
for every child born.
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We don't have a punch,
But we have string.
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-So, we improvise.
What do you mean "improvise"?
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Means turning
with what we have.
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This is Shep,
my youngest son
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And that is your fantasy
of Halloween.
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Shep is 2 years old
And he really likes trains,
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So I thought this would be
A great fantasy for him,
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Halloween was yesterday.
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I spent a lot of time
and hot glue to assemble it,
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But it ended up staying
Very heavy for him to use.
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You need to eat at least
3 salad spoonfuls and beans
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To earn more bacon.
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I just want to open.
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Just want to see?
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Very well, this is what wins
If you eat the rest of the salad.
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I worked
as a physical researcher,
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And I was in this company
About 12 years ago.
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When I speak to my
Former colleagues I stopped working
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To take care of my children,
They say, "Why is that?"
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And today, a year later,
I see that this decision
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It was one of the best
I took in my life.
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When I entered
In my old job,
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I knew they didn't give
maternity leave,
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But I could take
a medical license.
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So they offered me
2 months of medical leave,
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with extending option
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If the doctor thought it was necessary
grant an extension.
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I accepted the terms,
but at the end of the 2nd month,
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My boss wanted
I would go back to work.
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We had a meeting to speak
about the day you should go back.
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"You will come back",
That was the plan.
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But when the time came,
I couldn't leave it.
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I was learning
breastfeeding,
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with 2 months my production
of milk was increasing.
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90% of women in the USA
They want to breastfeed their children.
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They want to do this for them.
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Despite this, at 6 months, in the USA,
Only 16% are still breastfeeding
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and in Canada, 26%.
Are very low rates,
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Considering how many women
They wanted to breastfeed.
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And in countries where this happens,
Where you receive
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an integral salary
To stay with your child,
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The breastfeeding rate
It is very tall.
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For example, in Sweden, Finland
and many of these countries,
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They offer paid license
for mothers and parents.
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And it was observed that if you have
a father who participates,
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The mother has more chance
to successfully breastfeed
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and achieve your breastfeeding goals.
This is amazing!
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A participatory father helping the mother
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to get more involved with the child.
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Maternity leave not paid
It is not viable for many families.
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It is very important,
In the first months,
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Encourage someone to stay
with the baby in full time.
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The paid license enables this.
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We left maternity leave
around a year.
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Yes, it is! I know.
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It is never easy to say to the boss
that you are pregnant,
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Because he knows you
It will move away for a long time.
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It is common in Denmark
stay away for a year,
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But you can also stay
for six months or less.
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Women are very
strong in the labor market,
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So we tried to make the parents
take a longer license.
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So it is common to see parents with children
SMALL TAKING 4 MONTHS LICENSE
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To stay with the children
while they are small.
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We try to do
the system works,
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for more men
can take license.
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Like this,
We divide the household chores
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And who stays with the children.
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I am a terrible father.
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But my children like me.
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In fact, they love me.
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The other day, I said to them:
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"I scream a lot with you."
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And they said, "No, you just scream
when we do something wrong. "
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And I said:
"Yeah, but I shouldn't."
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They answered:
"No, you're cool and don't scream."
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They are so blind
of love for me,
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because they need
Both me and father,
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who hardly
my defects.
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I received a job offer
In Prince George County,
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And my eldest daughter, Mackenzie,
Go to school in another city,
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And I take her to school
every day.
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It was a good offer,
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but not enough to
Give up to take her to school.
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Is it causing problems?
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Ah, there is,
caused a problem for me.
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We divide the functions of care
of the house and our daughter.
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Who is available
at the moment
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assumes the responsibility of,
For example, prepare food
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or put it to sleep.
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As much as the tasks
be tiring,
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We divide everything.
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The relationship is uneven
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When only the mother knows
How to do things.
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Only the mother knows how to change diapers
or hold the baby.
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00:33:47,712 --> 00:33:50,758
So the father says:
"The baby is crying. Take it."
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00:33:50,965 --> 00:33:55,054
Then the father feels:
"My job is to make money,
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00:33:57,264 --> 00:33:59,849
And my wife should
Give me more attention. "
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00:34:00,059 --> 00:34:03,854
I participated and took care of together
from the beginning.
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00:34:04,063 --> 00:34:05,898
Not because I am
a better person,
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00:34:06,105 --> 00:34:09,192
But it was the choice
that we did.
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00:34:09,527 --> 00:34:13,447
It helped me not
I resent from time
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that my wife gets the baby
Because I get it too.
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00:34:17,201 --> 00:34:21,621
After the first months,
You have to say:
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"We are not just a father and mother,
We are also partners ".
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00:34:37,304 --> 00:34:41,349
I have two children,
Joaquim and Felipe.
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Joaquim is 6 years old and
Felipe has 3 years.
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I am a nurse.
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00:34:52,695 --> 00:34:54,989
I worked last year
day -to -day
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00:34:55,155 --> 00:34:57,866
And my son's teacher
older
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00:34:58,742 --> 00:35:00,577
that saw him distressed,
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00:35:00,786 --> 00:35:03,914
who noticed that he felt
Lack of parents during the day.
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00:35:04,539 --> 00:35:07,585
By divorcing and staying
alone with them,
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00:35:07,876 --> 00:35:11,630
I had to choose to
work at night
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00:35:11,880 --> 00:35:14,924
To be able to stay with them
During the day.
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00:35:16,009 --> 00:35:19,804
I spend the day with them,
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00:35:20,014 --> 00:35:24,018
And I can't rest at night.
I have to go out to work,
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00:35:24,184 --> 00:35:26,186
Because my routine is like that.
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00:35:26,436 --> 00:35:31,065
And the next day I am with them
for whatever they need.
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00:35:42,202 --> 00:35:44,038
I put on the mother shirt
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00:35:44,246 --> 00:35:49,501
And that brought me
marriage difficulties,
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00:35:49,751 --> 00:35:54,005
Because I forgot to be a woman
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00:35:54,757 --> 00:35:58,802
And I dedicated myself totally
To my children.
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00:36:00,762 --> 00:36:02,139
But anyway, I'm with them.
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00:36:03,474 --> 00:36:07,561
The first lesson that
My husband and I learned fast,
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00:36:07,936 --> 00:36:10,146
but we could
have learned faster,
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00:36:10,563 --> 00:36:14,442
It was never to say:
"Can you do me a favor?"
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00:36:14,610 --> 00:36:18,572
The idea was that we were
In Together, as partners.
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00:36:23,744 --> 00:36:25,871
My children don't care
If I am important,
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00:36:26,038 --> 00:36:27,498
or if you earn money.
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00:36:27,748 --> 00:36:30,041
They just care
If I'm present.
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00:36:30,333 --> 00:36:32,460
And this is a great reminder
for life.
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00:36:32,753 --> 00:36:34,797
I want to push it on the grass.
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00:36:35,005 --> 00:36:36,590
-He is well.
-I'm push you.
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00:36:36,757 --> 00:36:37,925
Prepared?
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00:36:41,762 --> 00:36:43,389
I will not leave
that do it again.
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00:36:53,481 --> 00:36:54,775
Again!
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00:36:57,735 --> 00:37:00,614
My biggest role as a father
It is being a playground.
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00:37:08,581 --> 00:37:09,707
Like this?
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00:37:09,873 --> 00:37:10,915
How about?
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00:37:11,083 --> 00:37:13,001
We can be like this.
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00:37:14,462 --> 00:37:17,505
From a creative perspective,
One of the most important things
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00:37:17,715 --> 00:37:19,341
to give to a child
It's nothing.
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00:37:19,757 --> 00:37:23,553
Is to allow them to invent something
with whatever you have around.
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00:37:23,762 --> 00:37:26,265
And also encourage them
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00:37:26,474 --> 00:37:28,309
inventing worlds.
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00:38:20,610 --> 00:38:23,864
This idea of offering
to the child opportunities
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00:38:24,030 --> 00:38:27,451
to explore, learn
And whatever,
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00:38:27,867 --> 00:38:28,869
or play.
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00:38:29,077 --> 00:38:32,914
The game is the main vehicle
for the child's learning.
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00:38:40,047 --> 00:38:41,882
What we want
is that the children
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00:38:42,048 --> 00:38:45,635
don't have everything so easy,
no challenge,
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00:38:45,885 --> 00:38:48,346
Even if it's so difficult
that cannot perform.
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00:38:48,639 --> 00:38:53,309
If you observe a baby,
or preschool child,
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00:38:53,768 --> 00:38:55,728
mainly babies
and young children,
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00:38:55,980 --> 00:38:58,315
They repeat
The same thing without stopping.
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00:38:58,523 --> 00:39:00,650
Adults, sometimes,
get bored
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00:39:00,693 --> 00:39:03,237
When a child
wins a new toy,
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00:39:03,654 --> 00:39:07,282
Even something simple,
such as blocks, cardboard,
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00:39:07,657 --> 00:39:09,284
or a simple puzzle,
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00:39:09,784 --> 00:39:13,913
As soon as it just done,
Want to do it again, nonstop.
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00:39:14,248 --> 00:39:17,333
They have a born instinct
To master things.
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00:40:16,018 --> 00:40:19,146
Playing is the work of children,
That's what they should do.
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00:40:20,146 --> 00:40:22,565
Everything important happens
When they play.
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00:40:23,108 --> 00:40:24,860
They strive,
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00:40:25,110 --> 00:40:27,655
participate in the world
and learn.
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00:40:28,655 --> 00:40:34,244
You already saw babies
that are left quiet,
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00:40:34,411 --> 00:40:37,539
that are left to live
your own reality,
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00:40:38,039 --> 00:40:41,251
How they dream, look,
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00:40:41,501 --> 00:40:44,880
They absorb, listen.
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00:40:45,130 --> 00:40:47,590
We feel that several things
happen,
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00:40:47,757 --> 00:40:50,426
But it makes no noise.
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00:40:50,635 --> 00:40:54,014
These are moments
formidable.
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00:40:57,893 --> 00:41:02,481
You need to give the baby time
feel your own existence,
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00:41:02,648 --> 00:41:04,316
Because this is a wealth.
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00:41:40,268 --> 00:41:44,272
I think the teacher's duty,
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00:41:45,023 --> 00:41:48,277
of the adult,
Even from a relative,
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00:41:48,443 --> 00:41:52,489
but at school
It is the teacher's duty
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00:41:52,697 --> 00:41:57,327
build
interesting contexts.
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00:42:06,128 --> 00:42:09,798
Oh, what a smell! Chamomile!
348
00:42:10,007 --> 00:42:13,635
It makes me want to take
A delicious chamomile tea!
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00:42:14,344 --> 00:42:17,764
What I am offering
To my son, if I'm a mother,
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00:42:18,014 --> 00:42:20,893
or my children,
If I'm a teacher?
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00:42:21,184 --> 00:42:22,978
Relations,
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00:42:23,436 --> 00:42:26,272
Stories and also beauty.
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00:42:27,233 --> 00:42:30,653
I'm offering something
that is born within a story,
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00:42:30,860 --> 00:42:32,570
within a care.
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00:42:33,155 --> 00:42:34,740
-It is tasty?
-AND.
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00:42:35,114 --> 00:42:36,115
Did you try it?
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00:42:37,492 --> 00:42:39,452
-Tasty.
-It is tasty?
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00:42:39,994 --> 00:42:41,163
Food is culture.
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00:42:41,371 --> 00:42:44,290
At the moment when
We serve a food,
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00:42:44,500 --> 00:42:46,335
We are doing
a cultural path,
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00:42:46,501 --> 00:42:50,213
We are giving a lifestyle
to the child.
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00:42:51,172 --> 00:42:55,426
Food has a role
very important,
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00:42:56,137 --> 00:43:02,137
since it should meet the need
of love, attention and care
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00:43:03,268 --> 00:43:06,521
left by breastfeeding,
that decreases over time.
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00:43:09,692 --> 00:43:12,235
Many children live
in apartments
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00:43:12,402 --> 00:43:14,445
Sometimes, very small.
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00:43:14,612 --> 00:43:17,949
How do we do to create
A good environment for them?
368
00:43:18,117 --> 00:43:22,955
The environment, first of all,
It is in people's minds.
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00:43:23,121 --> 00:43:27,125
May not have so many things,
not have so much space,
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00:43:27,333 --> 00:43:29,794
but what value
people give things,
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00:43:30,003 --> 00:43:32,714
to the spaces with the children,
to the environment?
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00:43:33,047 --> 00:43:34,132
This.
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00:43:38,137 --> 00:43:40,722
Oh, what a pain!
Gives me a medicine?
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00:43:44,059 --> 00:43:46,394
I need a medicine
Because I am in a lot of pain.
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00:43:46,603 --> 00:43:47,562
Take it!
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00:43:47,980 --> 00:43:49,440
Is this the medicine?
377
00:43:50,648 --> 00:43:53,109
No, I want one
Cup of medicine.
378
00:43:55,279 --> 00:43:56,614
Here it is!
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00:44:05,414 --> 00:44:06,582
Ready!
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00:44:07,416 --> 00:44:11,712
-You feel better?
-Yes, much better! Thank you, doctor!
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00:46:32,853 --> 00:46:38,853
In nature, children put
At stake all your corporeality.
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00:46:40,485 --> 00:46:44,072
They explore and appreciate it
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00:46:44,280 --> 00:46:49,994
not only from the point of view
biological and naturalistic,
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00:46:50,204 --> 00:46:56,204
but also from the point of view
ethical and aesthetic.
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00:46:58,878 --> 00:47:04,509
Beauty has intrinsically
a value
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00:47:04,677 --> 00:47:08,139
ethical and moral type.
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00:47:22,945 --> 00:47:25,489
We believe
that the beautiful attracts the beautiful,
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00:47:25,780 --> 00:47:27,782
and attracts beauty gestures;
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00:47:27,949 --> 00:47:30,368
that care attracts
Care gestures.
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00:47:30,619 --> 00:47:35,249
And I think this is a great
citizenship exercise,
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00:47:35,541 --> 00:47:40,629
A beautiful training
for the construction of a man.
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00:48:52,534 --> 00:48:57,623
Observe the children
and make these dialogues with them
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00:48:58,998 --> 00:49:01,668
makes everyday life extraordinary,
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00:49:01,960 --> 00:49:05,505
makes it extraordinary
The simple acts.
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00:49:05,880 --> 00:49:10,094
Rain can become
a very interesting thing,
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00:49:11,387 --> 00:49:13,013
The light that changes ...
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00:49:13,639 --> 00:49:17,017
Live with children,
be with them,
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00:49:17,226 --> 00:49:23,226
It is a kind of rediscovery
of many things.
399
00:49:23,815 --> 00:49:29,815
But the adult needs
continue to be enchanted
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00:49:30,447 --> 00:49:36,036
with a piece of aluminum foil
From chocolate, you know?
401
00:49:36,244 --> 00:49:42,167
The aluminum paper that makes noise,
that shines with the light.
402
00:49:42,626 --> 00:49:47,506
The adult must continue
to be enchanted by these things.
403
00:51:51,505 --> 00:51:53,965
The most important for me
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00:51:54,257 --> 00:51:57,218
is that they have
a free life,
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00:51:57,635 --> 00:52:03,476
that they find
your own desire.
406
00:52:04,059 --> 00:52:05,269
-I "love" daddy.
-You said right?
407
00:52:05,518 --> 00:52:06,769
Dad "loves me"!
408
00:52:09,148 --> 00:52:11,358
It is very important
Listen to the children.
409
00:52:12,108 --> 00:52:15,154
If you don't hear the children,
You lose them.
410
00:52:15,570 --> 00:52:17,989
Children have things
valuable to tell
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00:52:18,157 --> 00:52:19,492
For all people.
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00:52:19,742 --> 00:52:23,370
Even a small child,
When you try to say something,
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00:52:23,579 --> 00:52:26,289
What she is saying
It is very valid.
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00:52:26,456 --> 00:52:28,791
When a child
Try to say "mom"
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00:52:29,543 --> 00:52:31,420
And tries to say "daddy",
416
00:52:31,628 --> 00:52:32,797
This is communication.
417
00:53:02,242 --> 00:53:03,744
-Daddy?
-Yes?
418
00:53:03,911 --> 00:53:07,373
Let's get higher
than the fire car.
419
00:53:07,581 --> 00:53:10,166
-More than the firefighter car?
-AND!
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00:53:10,376 --> 00:53:13,005
If we compare the
number of words that
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00:53:13,006 --> 00:53:15,006
children from needy families hear
422
00:53:15,172 --> 00:53:18,634
with the number of words heard
by children from more cultured families
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00:53:18,925 --> 00:53:22,554
There is a huge difference
in the number of words per hour.
424
00:53:23,139 --> 00:53:27,809
And research proves that
There is really a difference.
425
00:53:28,226 --> 00:53:32,188
This difference can arrive
to 30 million words less
426
00:53:32,398 --> 00:53:37,193
listened to the children
of needy families
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00:53:37,402 --> 00:53:38,611
Until 4 years,
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00:53:38,862 --> 00:53:43,158
compared to children
of more cultured families.
429
00:53:43,867 --> 00:53:45,786
-Hair?
-Hair.
430
00:53:49,164 --> 00:53:51,000
No.
431
00:53:51,876 --> 00:53:53,586
-Ear?
-Ear.
432
00:53:54,335 --> 00:53:55,378
And your ear?
433
00:53:57,130 --> 00:53:58,423
Where is your ear?
434
00:54:00,009 --> 00:54:01,177
And the nose?
435
00:54:01,719 --> 00:54:02,887
And the eyes?
436
00:54:03,429 --> 00:54:05,306
No, where are the eyes?
437
00:54:05,514 --> 00:54:07,224
-Chin.
-Yes, the chin.
438
00:54:07,391 --> 00:54:08,642
And the elbow?
439
00:54:10,018 --> 00:54:11,478
-Very good!
-Eye.
440
00:54:11,896 --> 00:54:13,022
Eye.
441
00:54:13,480 --> 00:54:15,732
Why this difference
Is it important?
442
00:54:15,858 --> 00:54:19,987
Because whenever a father
Talk to your child,
443
00:54:20,154 --> 00:54:24,992
This causes something in the child,
It is a stimulus for the child
444
00:54:25,159 --> 00:54:26,619
and forms brain connections.
445
00:54:27,369 --> 00:54:32,500
If a child hears 30 million
of words less than their peers,
446
00:54:32,791 --> 00:54:35,336
It is already unequal territory.
447
00:54:35,503 --> 00:54:38,756
What a word costs
as an intervention? Nothing!
448
00:54:42,425 --> 00:54:46,179
I see my beloved
449
00:54:46,764 --> 00:54:50,434
On the east side of the gate
450
00:54:50,893 --> 00:54:54,103
But the angels of heaven sent
451
00:54:54,688 --> 00:54:57,023
The North Wind whistle
452
00:54:57,690 --> 00:54:59,859
Come here, kiss Dad.
453
00:55:01,237 --> 00:55:06,157
The happiest moment of my day
It's when my granddaughter
454
00:55:06,992 --> 00:55:12,289
call me "grandpa"
After I get up.
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00:55:12,873 --> 00:55:17,586
When we eat
Together and she asks me
456
00:55:18,170 --> 00:55:24,009
to hold it
to eat on my lap.
457
00:55:24,467 --> 00:55:26,469
My son is a taxi driver in Beijing.
458
00:55:26,637 --> 00:55:30,057
My daughter -in -law works
in a food factory.
459
00:55:31,934 --> 00:55:35,604
Although the factory closes at 17h,
460
00:55:35,771 --> 00:55:38,774
It takes at least 4 hours
to get home.
461
00:56:09,429 --> 00:56:11,764
What the men in the cave
Did they do it with this stone?
462
00:56:12,016 --> 00:56:16,061
They cut the
sheep and the sheep,
463
00:56:16,561 --> 00:56:18,146
All things.
464
00:56:20,148 --> 00:56:21,608
Why didn't they ...?
465
00:56:22,275 --> 00:56:24,152
Iron.
466
00:56:24,360 --> 00:56:26,405
Because they had no knife, iron ...
467
00:56:26,406 --> 00:56:27,406
No.
468
00:56:27,989 --> 00:56:31,868
-So they used ...
-This stone.
469
01:00:16,009 --> 01:00:17,969
I didn't play with it yet.
470
01:00:20,889 --> 01:00:26,060
-Hey! Why the aggression?
-He hit me.
471
01:00:26,228 --> 01:00:29,440
If you play things on your sister again,
Dad will be very angry.
472
01:00:30,523 --> 01:00:32,902
Son, why
Were you violent?
473
01:00:33,152 --> 01:00:36,112
How do you become against
Is she out of nowhere? Huh?
474
01:00:36,530 --> 01:00:37,990
Why is that?
475
01:00:38,657 --> 01:00:40,951
Strong temperament, huh?
476
01:00:41,159 --> 01:00:44,413
No!
She didn't let me play.
477
01:02:41,947 --> 01:02:43,865
Let's buy your bike
in the market.
478
01:02:44,115 --> 01:02:45,909
-No.
-How not? Yes.
479
01:02:46,159 --> 01:02:47,536
-No.
-Ah, go!
480
01:02:52,875 --> 01:02:57,420
All parents sometimes get
tempted to hit the children.
481
01:02:58,505 --> 01:03:02,509
Because you are tired
and gets annoyed by some ruling.
482
01:03:02,967 --> 01:03:06,806
The child sees this giant
come to him, furious,
483
01:03:07,014 --> 01:03:10,142
With the hand like this and,
For the child, it is frightening.
484
01:03:27,701 --> 01:03:31,621
Some types of abuse
The child does not suffer. She sees.
485
01:03:32,164 --> 01:03:34,667
She sees her mother
and the father fighting.
486
01:03:34,875 --> 01:03:36,543
So for her,
fighting is normal.
487
01:03:37,043 --> 01:03:39,379
Learn that this is
that problems are solved.
488
01:03:39,547 --> 01:03:42,132
If you have a problem
With the other, you fight.
489
01:03:42,715 --> 01:03:45,510
And they will take it
for your adult life
490
01:03:45,677 --> 01:03:48,638
and also for their families,
when they grow up.
491
01:03:48,847 --> 01:03:51,266
There is a Chinese proverb
492
01:03:51,559 --> 01:03:56,021
who says parents are the best
your children's teachers.
493
01:03:56,521 --> 01:04:00,233
Therefore, the behavior,
The way they express themselves
494
01:04:00,483 --> 01:04:02,527
and the way you react
to the outside world
495
01:04:02,735 --> 01:04:05,321
will have great influence
about your children.
496
01:04:05,655 --> 01:04:07,115
I wanted to talk to you.
497
01:04:08,742 --> 01:04:11,662
You didn't sleep in the afternoon
Because you didn't want to.
498
01:04:13,164 --> 01:04:15,207
But when you
Do not sleep in the afternoon,
499
01:04:15,416 --> 01:04:16,959
It gets very tired
500
01:04:17,793 --> 01:04:20,003
And don't behave so well
how much could.
501
01:04:20,920 --> 01:04:25,800
So, you will have to strive
To behave well, right?
502
01:04:33,391 --> 01:04:36,561
It is ready to
behave and descend?
503
01:04:37,605 --> 01:04:40,231
Because if you are not
ready to behave,
504
01:04:40,440 --> 01:04:42,192
can stay longer
here up.
505
01:04:42,610 --> 01:04:44,862
Maybe seeing books
or something.
506
01:04:44,987 --> 01:04:47,865
-To descend!
Do you want to go down? All good.
507
01:07:50,172 --> 01:07:54,425
Radika was 7 months old
When it came to our lives.
508
01:07:55,135 --> 01:07:58,012
My view of Radika is:
509
01:07:58,179 --> 01:08:02,017
wherever you have come from,
She came to us.
510
01:08:37,343 --> 01:08:41,764
It's amazing, because she got
Basins of both of us.
511
01:08:42,141 --> 01:08:44,559
It's impressive.
512
01:08:44,934 --> 01:08:47,437
She has the craze
513
01:08:47,812 --> 01:08:51,107
to take the tip of the tablecloth,
anything.
514
01:08:51,316 --> 01:08:53,401
When I was on his lap,
She was ...
515
01:08:53,611 --> 01:08:56,238
Taking the tip
of my ear,
516
01:08:56,446 --> 01:08:58,615
She did it
with the pillow.
517
01:08:58,824 --> 01:09:01,035
-Of small.
-When I was her age.
518
01:09:01,326 --> 01:09:04,829
1, 2, 3, 4, 5.
519
01:09:05,080 --> 01:09:07,333
Half of the personality
of a person
520
01:09:08,124 --> 01:09:10,210
It's already part of it,
521
01:09:11,337 --> 01:09:13,214
which is 50%.
522
01:09:13,422 --> 01:09:16,717
And the other 50% come
of the environment,
523
01:09:16,925 --> 01:09:19,469
of the parents, from the school.
524
01:09:19,678 --> 01:09:21,222
Of the rest of things.
525
01:09:21,429 --> 01:09:25,934
Se não demos a ela 50%,
At least we gave the other 50%.
526
01:09:27,852 --> 01:09:30,188
I think she's 80% like me.
527
01:09:30,356 --> 01:09:32,817
The bad things
They are attributed to me.
528
01:09:33,066 --> 01:09:36,110
The 20% of bad things
that she has come from the father.
529
01:09:37,071 --> 01:09:39,240
We plan to tell her
About your adoption,
530
01:09:39,447 --> 01:09:42,450
But it has to be
very sensitively.
531
01:09:42,660 --> 01:09:46,080
We certainly let's tell,
There is nothing to hide.
532
01:11:53,915 --> 01:11:55,375
My parents died.
533
01:11:55,834 --> 01:11:59,379
I was created here at
Fruitful Talent Center,
534
01:11:59,629 --> 01:12:01,798
by volunteer parents.
535
01:12:02,007 --> 01:12:05,344
Before, I missed
of my parents,
536
01:12:05,510 --> 01:12:09,056
But when the time came,
They gave me love,
537
01:12:09,264 --> 01:12:13,227
And they created me as
If they were my parents,
538
01:12:13,434 --> 01:12:17,522
And I thought:
"My parents have died,
539
01:12:17,731 --> 01:12:22,236
But I have someone to
Welcome me, giving me education.
540
01:12:22,486 --> 01:12:24,363
So, okay ".
541
01:12:24,696 --> 01:12:27,240
If they weren't there,
I would be desperate,
542
01:12:27,491 --> 01:12:29,827
But, as they were there with me,
I said:
543
01:12:30,035 --> 01:12:32,913
"Thanks.
I'll call you 'my parents'. "
544
01:12:33,121 --> 01:12:35,790
So, I decided to go back
545
01:12:35,999 --> 01:12:39,837
And also help children
from Fruitful Talent Center.
546
01:12:43,382 --> 01:12:45,718
Some of the children
have no parents,
547
01:12:45,925 --> 01:12:49,888
And, they come to tell me:
"You know, Aunt Beatrice ..."
548
01:12:50,097 --> 01:12:51,264
I say, "What?"
549
01:12:51,723 --> 01:12:55,561
"Before, I didn't have
Father no mother, but now ...
550
01:12:56,728 --> 01:12:58,897
Before I didn't have
Nothing to eat,
551
01:12:59,063 --> 01:13:02,192
But when you feed me
And we play, I feel good. "
552
01:13:02,401 --> 01:13:05,029
So, I tell them:
"That is great.
553
01:13:05,236 --> 01:13:07,780
You are my children.
Come here.
554
01:13:07,990 --> 01:13:11,494
You have no father or mother,
But as long as they are here,
555
01:13:11,701 --> 01:13:14,079
believe in God
And I'm with you,
556
01:13:14,245 --> 01:13:15,748
everything will be fine".
557
01:13:17,790 --> 01:13:20,210
These children who have no parents
558
01:13:20,419 --> 01:13:23,923
They call the Fruitful Talent Center
by home.
559
01:13:26,883 --> 01:13:29,219
The problems we have,
To be honest,
560
01:13:29,428 --> 01:13:33,849
like where they sleep,
We don't have enough beds,
561
01:13:34,057 --> 01:13:35,767
Food is also a problem.
562
01:13:35,976 --> 01:13:38,062
A few days, we don't have ...
563
01:13:38,228 --> 01:13:41,606
This morning,
We don't have breakfast.
564
01:13:41,773 --> 01:13:45,527
But I prepared water and said:
"Let's take this glass of water."
565
01:13:45,736 --> 01:13:49,073
Everyone drank the water,
And we thank God.
566
01:13:56,330 --> 01:14:01,376
The early years are like
build the foundation of a house.
567
01:14:01,544 --> 01:14:05,089
You build the structure on
which everything else will develop.
568
01:14:05,380 --> 01:14:08,383
So if the foundation is not
well built at the beginning of life,
569
01:14:08,508 --> 01:14:12,303
As the construction rises,
Something bad can happen.
570
01:14:16,642 --> 01:14:19,394
We, sweet children
571
01:14:19,562 --> 01:14:22,231
We are loved by all
572
01:14:22,397 --> 01:14:25,191
The world is all ours
573
01:14:25,401 --> 01:14:28,612
We have wings like butterflies
574
01:14:28,862 --> 01:14:30,780
Flying high in the sky
575
01:14:31,197 --> 01:14:33,116
The words we speak
576
01:14:33,491 --> 01:14:37,079
My son was very sick
and needed blood.
577
01:14:37,495 --> 01:14:41,249
Then your own father
donated blood to him,
578
01:14:41,834 --> 01:14:45,504
But he still needed
of more blood.
579
01:14:45,670 --> 01:14:47,882
So, I got $ 765
borrowed in the city.
580
01:14:48,089 --> 01:14:50,758
So I have to work
to pay the debt.
581
01:14:51,384 --> 01:14:54,804
My job is to climb 30 floors
carrying buckets of water
582
01:14:55,013 --> 01:14:57,391
and cement on the head.
583
01:14:57,557 --> 01:15:00,560
I get $ 4 a day
To do this work.
584
01:15:01,144 --> 01:15:03,981
It's very hard,
My body can hardly stand it,
585
01:15:04,231 --> 01:15:06,066
But I still do it.
586
01:15:06,316 --> 01:15:09,319
For my children,
I can take it all.
587
01:15:10,487 --> 01:15:12,865
First of all,
be poorly
588
01:15:13,031 --> 01:15:15,325
It is a violation
of human rights.
589
01:15:15,910 --> 01:15:19,914
Every human being has the right
to basic needs,
590
01:15:20,080 --> 01:15:21,916
All of them.
591
01:15:22,124 --> 01:15:25,878
Every human being.
Food, shelter, clothes,
592
01:15:26,085 --> 01:15:28,505
Health services.
593
01:15:28,755 --> 01:15:31,383
The basics, every human being
You are entitled to this.
594
01:15:31,758 --> 01:15:35,053
When you grow in poverty,
Do not receive some of these items.
595
01:15:35,346 --> 01:15:40,058
Poverty denies children
many of your rights.
596
01:15:40,267 --> 01:15:42,644
Many children
do not attend school.
597
01:15:43,019 --> 01:15:44,647
We have children out of school.
598
01:15:44,897 --> 01:15:48,108
Search for their lives,
You will see
599
01:15:48,316 --> 01:15:51,277
that families have no money
to put food on the table.
600
01:16:30,151 --> 01:16:32,736
I take account of my brother
and my sister alone.
601
01:17:12,735 --> 01:17:15,237
What was doing
From the roof that day?
602
01:17:15,446 --> 01:17:18,949
That day was raining
And a piece of the roof fell.
603
01:17:19,157 --> 01:17:21,367
Made a drip
and was trying to fix it.
604
01:17:32,170 --> 01:17:34,464
What is your biggest dream?
605
01:17:34,548 --> 01:17:37,300
I have no dreams.
606
01:18:00,074 --> 01:18:02,867
Which child in development
Risks?
607
01:18:03,035 --> 01:18:06,747
The child who lives
in very difficult circumstances,
608
01:18:06,914 --> 01:18:08,874
Not a bad day here
and another there,
609
01:18:09,083 --> 01:18:11,876
But something constant,
days, weeks, months, years,
610
01:18:12,044 --> 01:18:14,922
where there is little
positive interaction,
611
01:18:15,130 --> 01:18:17,173
where the stress level
It's high,
612
01:18:17,383 --> 01:18:19,425
mainly,
In extreme poverty,
613
01:18:19,677 --> 01:18:22,972
in violent environments or in cases
of severe mental diseases,
614
01:18:23,179 --> 01:18:25,974
as depression or drug use.
615
01:18:26,182 --> 01:18:29,477
There is no time
To think about tomorrow,
616
01:18:29,687 --> 01:18:31,313
They just try
Live another day.
617
01:18:31,522 --> 01:18:35,860
And when the home
It is very disorganized,
618
01:18:36,067 --> 01:18:37,986
Not because the parents
do not love their children,
619
01:18:38,195 --> 01:18:40,739
But because they are overloaded
by the circumstances.
620
01:19:05,763 --> 01:19:10,810
Their mother had problems
in the stomach and died.
621
01:19:16,025 --> 01:19:19,612
I suffer to see my children ...
622
01:19:21,362 --> 01:19:23,449
No mother.
623
01:19:26,869 --> 01:19:31,581
I strive a lot
To be a good father,
624
01:19:33,374 --> 01:19:36,712
so that they have someone
next to them during their lifetime.
625
01:19:38,047 --> 01:19:42,593
I want my children
have a good life
626
01:19:43,009 --> 01:19:47,263
and a good education,
if possible,
627
01:19:48,598 --> 01:19:52,227
that take them wherever they want.
628
01:19:58,316 --> 01:20:01,402
Children are not created
by the government, but by the people.
629
01:20:01,611 --> 01:20:05,782
Are not created by institutions,
but by individuals.
630
01:20:06,534 --> 01:20:10,454
At the end,
Much of this is how
631
01:20:10,663 --> 01:20:14,415
the most important adults
In the lives of children
632
01:20:14,583 --> 01:20:16,335
They are providing
What they need.
633
01:20:16,501 --> 01:20:19,463
But the problem is
when political values
634
01:20:19,922 --> 01:20:23,717
get angry with adults
who don't give what they need
635
01:20:24,050 --> 01:20:26,928
or want to punish them
or don't want to help them:
636
01:20:27,303 --> 01:20:31,474
"I can help the children,
But I will not help adults. "
637
01:20:32,058 --> 01:20:34,561
Science says it cannot be
Help children
638
01:20:34,769 --> 01:20:37,063
without helping adults
who take care of them.
639
01:20:37,356 --> 01:20:41,735
Children are not helped
by programs, but by people.
640
01:20:41,943 --> 01:20:45,030
The consequences of not giving
to children what they need
641
01:20:45,156 --> 01:20:47,241
They cost a lot for society.
642
01:20:47,449 --> 01:20:49,201
And even for people
who say:
643
01:20:49,410 --> 01:20:51,620
"I take good care of my children.
644
01:20:51,870 --> 01:20:55,081
I give hard,
things don't come easy,
645
01:20:55,290 --> 01:20:57,168
But I'm taking good care of them.
646
01:20:57,375 --> 01:21:01,045
It is not fair to ask me
to be responsible
647
01:21:01,213 --> 01:21:03,424
so the others
They do not do for their children.
648
01:21:03,632 --> 01:21:06,509
I'm worried about mine. "
The answer is:
649
01:21:06,885 --> 01:21:08,928
The lives of your children,
when they grow up
650
01:21:09,179 --> 01:21:11,097
It will be easier or more difficult
651
01:21:11,307 --> 01:21:14,101
Based on how many people
their age
652
01:21:14,267 --> 01:21:18,438
are contributing or are
a weight for society.
653
01:24:42,392 --> 01:24:47,730
Once, Albert Einstein was
interviewed by a journalist
654
01:24:47,940 --> 01:24:51,442
And he asked:
"Professor Einstein,
655
01:24:51,610 --> 01:24:56,574
If you had only one question
About the universe, what would it be? "
656
01:24:57,074 --> 01:25:01,036
He expected a
Very sophisticated question.
657
01:25:01,245 --> 01:25:03,372
And Einstein answered
that the question would be:
658
01:25:03,580 --> 01:25:07,083
"Is the universe friendly?"
659
01:25:10,754 --> 01:25:13,048
In the USA,
We did a study that shows
660
01:25:13,214 --> 01:25:17,469
The benefit of a dollar invested
in the early years of a child.
661
01:25:17,594 --> 01:25:21,723
What are the effects in terms
Crime reduction?
662
01:25:21,932 --> 01:25:24,018
In reducing costs
of imprisonment?
663
01:25:24,226 --> 01:25:26,394
We find that
For each dollar invested
664
01:25:26,603 --> 01:25:29,315
Return around 7 dollars.
665
01:25:30,191 --> 01:25:32,443
In terms of margin
yield,
666
01:25:33,026 --> 01:25:37,197
which is basically how much
per year for each dollar invested.
667
01:25:37,364 --> 01:25:39,575
A savings account
You can win
668
01:25:39,782 --> 01:25:41,869
3, 4, 5 percent per year.
669
01:25:42,076 --> 01:25:43,454
What we discover
670
01:25:43,579 --> 01:25:47,081
It was something between 7 and 10 percent
of income per year.
671
01:25:47,249 --> 01:25:48,876
What is an income
very high.
672
01:25:49,168 --> 01:25:51,337
Much more than the bag
US values.
673
01:25:51,879 --> 01:25:55,716
And give people to
ability to be autonomous
674
01:25:55,924 --> 01:25:58,343
to deal with the challenges of life,
675
01:25:58,510 --> 01:26:03,389
making them more productive and so
reducing social inequality.
676
01:26:03,766 --> 01:26:07,478
For me, a government
seriously
677
01:26:07,686 --> 01:26:12,023
The development of their children
or the future of your nation,
678
01:26:12,191 --> 01:26:14,943
It should invest in parenting.
679
01:26:15,361 --> 01:26:18,030
Create opportunity for parents
680
01:26:18,239 --> 01:26:22,159
that allow them to have
quality of time with your children.
681
01:26:22,450 --> 01:26:24,744
Sometimes parents care
682
01:26:24,954 --> 01:26:27,331
Because they don't have money,
don't have time,
683
01:26:27,831 --> 01:26:33,044
They cannot buy for their children
Dear toys, computers and etc.
684
01:26:33,254 --> 01:26:35,381
I tell them
That this toy doesn't matter.
685
01:26:35,589 --> 01:26:38,759
You are the most important thing
In this child's life.
686
01:26:38,968 --> 01:26:41,554
You are the first
and the best teacher.
687
01:26:41,719 --> 01:26:43,722
These are the things that come for free:
688
01:26:43,931 --> 01:26:47,893
your words, your love,
your joke.
689
01:26:48,102 --> 01:26:53,732
It is the connection you build
between you and your child
690
01:26:53,941 --> 01:26:55,818
that makes all the difference
from the world.
691
01:26:56,192 --> 01:26:57,861
Then,
When we help the child
692
01:26:58,070 --> 01:27:01,197
And we invest in early childhood,
693
01:27:01,365 --> 01:27:04,201
We are investing in
society as a whole.
694
01:27:04,576 --> 01:27:07,370
If we change
The beginning of the story,
695
01:27:07,871 --> 01:27:09,664
We changed the whole story.
696
01:27:10,374 --> 01:27:11,666
For the better.
697
01:27:19,674 --> 01:27:26,264
a village is required
To raise our children
698
01:27:26,723 --> 01:27:32,855
a village is required
To raise a child
699
01:27:33,772 --> 01:27:40,154
We should all
Divide responsibility
700
01:27:40,737 --> 01:27:48,077
We should all
Share Joy
701
01:27:54,250 --> 01:28:00,465
a village is required
To raise our children
702
01:28:00,965 --> 01:28:06,722
a village is required
To raise a child
703
01:28:07,473 --> 01:28:13,813
We should all
Divide responsibility
704
01:28:14,396 --> 01:28:24,322
We should all
Share Joy
705
01:28:53,099 --> 01:28:59,099
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